10 Sentences Wise Wives Say That Sweeten Their Marriage
Words. They build up or tear down.
Research shows women speak more than men. So, our words count.
The Bible weighs in on the significance of words. Proverbs 10:19 says, “When there are many words, transgression is unavoidable, but he who restrains his lips is wise.” Proverbs 16:24 encourages us, “Pleasant words are a honeycomb, Sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” How are we doing with our words? Are they bitter or sweet to our husbands?
Here are 10 sentences that sweeten a marriage.
- “Good morning.” These simple words communicate, “I see you. I care about you. Let’s have a great day!”
- “What do you have going on today?” These seven words communicate that we’re not so absorbed in ourselves or children that we don’t see our husband. They say, “I’m interested in YOU.”
- “I love you.” This is a non negotiable for my husband and me. We may have had a disagreement, but before parting for the day or going to sleep, we say, “I love you.” I can’t imagine how horrible it would be if Keith died and the last words he’d heard from me were complaints or criticisms. “I love you” are the last words I want my husband to hear before he leaves for work or leaves for heaven.
- “How was your day?” This is similar to number 2. These four words communicate we care about our husband and are interested in him. Parents ask their children, “How was your day?” Wise wives ask their husbands about their day. We may get, “fine” for a response, but we may get more.
- “How can I pray for you?” I don’t know anyone who doesn’t appreciate prayer. If your husband isn’t a Christian, this may not be a question you ask, but you already know how to pray for him. If your husband is a Christian, he will appreciate you asking.
- “I’m sorry. Please forgive me.” When we do or say something wrong, an apology is sweet to our husband’s ears. Our flesh may swell in pride, but Christ calls us to humility.
- “Yes, I forgive you.” Responding, “fine,” when our husband apologizes isn’t as meaningful as looking them in the eye and saying, “Yes, I forgive you;” which communicates sincere forgiveness.
- “I know we don’t see eye to eye, but we’ll figure this out.” At times, we may feel hopeless in our marriage. Our husbands may feel the same. These words acknowledge there’s a problem, but that it’s resolvable.
- “I appreciate you for _____.” I don’t know anyone who doesn’t appreciate being recognized for who they are or what they do. These simple words sweeten a marriage.
- “Please_____. Thank you.” We teach our children to say please and thank you. But, do we say them? They sweeten our conversations. “Will you please stop by the bank?” “Thank you.”
Wife Step: Use honeycomb words to sweeten your marriage.
Debbie Taylor Williams, founder of Hill Country Ministries, a non-profit 501© 3 dedicated to spreading God’s Word and love, is a sought out national Christian speaker and author. Best known as a passionate Biblical expositor, Debbie uses humor and practical illustrations to communicate spiritual truths to women of all ages and walks of life. She has written 7 books and produced numerous video driven Bible studies, including The Plan A Mom In a Plan B World, The Plan A Woman In a Plan B World, Pray With Purpose, Live With Passion; Prayers of My Heart; If God Is In Control, Why Do I Have A Headache?; If God Is In Control, Why Am I A Basket Case, and Discovering His Passion.
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